I think I'm pretty well done with women for the year, if not the rest of my life (no, just kidding). Or maybe I should just stick to whacking off.
I was pretty happy to have met a nice girl about a month or so ago. After a couple of weeks it seemed to be getting a bit full on - as in constant text messages, numerous phone calls and the like. Our third date went pretty badly - I found out she's a pretty sore loser and was a bit appalled when she got really pissed off over losing to me at ten-pin bowling. We had lunch but it just felt really awkward seeing someone lose their cool over something so trivial that was meant to be fun. She apologised, but my pet hate is people who have to win at all costs.
I basically said look I'm happy to have this as a casual thing and I'm not after a relationship - not to say I'm going to see other girls while seeing her, but I just wanted to keep it simple. We met up on Thursday night for dinner/movie and I really came to that I don't want to spend anymore time with her. She was really rude to the waiter, talked about herself the whole night and later on, without going into details, she kind of freaked me out by some of the shit she was saying. Alarm bells were going off in my head - this girl is trouble.
Anyhow, this weekend was a long one, with the Queen's Birthday public holiday on. And I said to her on Friday, I have things to do and I really just want a break and spend some time alone over the weekend. And despite having said this, 20 text messages and 5 missed calls to my phone...well I don't need anymore reason to give this whole thing a wide berth.
I'm not sure the best way to handle this - I still have a CD of hers and I know she'll want it back. The thing is I don't want to have to do this face to face or over the phone. I don't know how she'll react because she has show a side that is really over the top angry and in no way do I want to provoke her. Confrontation has never been my forte.
I guess I can either: a) suck it up and be a man – face to face b) call her up and arrange to giver her back her CD or c) drop it back at her place while she is not home and just let the whole thing ride out over a few weeks, making other plans and telling her eventually that I do not want to see her.