@Jake - I think enough of us are friends with you on FB that we'd know, but yeah, all of your make sure your SO's have access to this so we know if something happened!
My wife and I have talked about putting together a document should our demise happen suddenly. I have a whole list of clients to worry about.
Mike, do you still have FTP access to this site? I think you did at one point. I should have at least one other person that can muck with things if shit goes south.