ok loophole workound thing. Used GV chrome extension to call myself, which made gmail ring. Answered it in gmail which in turn made my cell phone ring. Rejected call, and it went to VM and because gmail saw this as an incoming call from my cell phone I was able to record it, even though it was technically an outgoing call.
Cuz apparently gmail call lets you record incoming just not outgoing. I'm confused as hell but it worked.