Went through that search last July.
My original go-to was Bosch also. Spoke with a few repair shops and found out they have a ton of issues and did not keep up in the technology race. The worst news was that the Bosch hardware failures are repeating. This means they know of the issues and are letting the service group deal with it rather than make a change(s) and repair them. Plus they are fairly expensive from the onset.
So I opened it up to everyone and the clear winners were Kitchen Aid and Whirlpool Gold. Whirlpool makes both. We ended up with the KDTE104ESS0 Kitchen Aid. We could not rate an appliance higher. Silent, cleans really well, looks great, and seems to be easier on the dishes. 10/10
Hope that helps.